What’s The Limiting Reaction In Your Life?

You will hear most relationship experts say the same thing over and over, it’s all about communication.

We fail to realise that even though we may know all this… are we actually putting any of it into practice? I mean are we actually implementing what we learn everyday in our lives into our life? I doubt it.

I think we all go out there looking for answers only to find them and realise how simple they really are, yet they require a little bit of effort. Effort that we are unwilling to implement, even though we know that it will change our lives we do little about it. We are cowards and therefore scared of change.

As a result this cycle of searching for the knowledge that we think will save our lives takes over our lives. Rather than fronting up and facing what we always we had to face in the first place.

An interesting discussion when you are weighing up whether to look for further knowledge or go with your gut. Both are valid arguments you just need to find out what is best for you.

If you think that you require help, someone to hold your hand in the process of

A getting your ex back

B saving your marriage

OR Finding your way in life

You may be the best candidate for what I call, “self help manuals”

However you may also be the type who actually knows what one should do but just doesn’t want to do it. In this case the manuals may motivate you do get it done but you wont be doing it for the right reasons.

Whether it be ringing your wife after a long separation or, getting out there and meeting new people online?

Whatever your situation you need to ACT, waiting for life to happen is worth absolutely nothing to you and before you know it your life will be passing you by. Or is it already?

So is it actually down to a case of motivation then? If all you need is the courage to get off the couch and do something about it. Or the confidence to go up to your ex boyfriend or the one you love and actually tell them so.

You should be looking in this direction. In any case look for your limiting emotions first and this will… For lack of a better word.

Set You Free.

You see in chemistry there is a thing called the limiting reaction. This is the reaction that limits the speed at which the entire process can run at. This is the same with your life. There will be one emotion or facet of you that is stopping you from moving forward in a whole heap of areas.

It may be your weight or your confidence or your perceived appearance of yourself, your arrogance or lack of it, your laziness or inability to take risks. OR even a gambling problem. Whatever this limiting reaction is you NEED to find it and deal with it face to face.

You may even feel like its time to move on and find some one new?

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