The Magic Of Making Up
According the author, the magic of making up addresses the big issues and are confronted early on in the book with brutal honestly and with no beating around the bush.
One of the points I found considerably interesting was the method for finding out if your ex was still interested.
The magic of making up sold itself for me as it saves you so much time wondering but yet not acting. I am a big believer in putting your thoughts into action immediately.
The book points out the importance of getting your emotional state under control before attempting any real “getting your ex back” plan that you have made up in your mind. It challanges you to queston yourself on all sorts of issues relating to the question at hand. Is it worth going back?
Apparently it all about laying down the foundation for success from the beginning and then simply following the simple day to day steps outlined. T.W.Jackson the author of the book the magic of making up receives constant letters and emails about certain aspects about post relationship turmoil.
I think that he does a very good job at answering these questions so if you happen to have any 
questions that are not answered in the book or are case specific he is happy for you to contact him on a case by case basis.
Just another excellent reason to get the book. One of the main reasons why relationships tend to break up is the word “infidelity”.
It occurs every day perhaps every hour around the world and is a very hard emotion to handle. Jealousy is an emotion that is very strong and often comes on suddenly. We are not used to this emotion as it does not occur very often. But when it does we do not no how to cope.
Rationality goes out the window and we do silly things.
Allowing jealously to cloud our thoughts means we end up doing crazy things. Jealously is often brought on by insecurity and paranoia however the two are not mutually exclusive.
One of biggest questions that the author receives is that of “How do I save my relationship after cheating?” This is a huge topic and not soley answered in this review however the main hurdle to cross in this dilemma is all about rebuilding trust.
You will hear Jackson talk about this a bit in the magic of making up. I personally believe that it is THE biggest point that you need to get here.
Getting your ex back is all about rebuilding the trust that you have destroyed. Now you may or may not know this but how to rebuild the trust is certainly one of the hardest things to deal with and what I found was that the magic of making up made sure I had the steps to start rebuilding trust immediately.
You need to prove to your ex that you have changed and are ready to prove to him/her that you will not cheat again.
Rebuilding trust with someone does not happen overnight and scares may never heal. Some people may never ever get over what you may have done. But thankfully most people have the ability to forgive. The old mantra “Your forgiven but not forgotten” holds true for this situation.
I guess this is the price that you pay for cheating. So keep that in your mind that…
REBUILDING TRUST IS HARD
Hence the reason to get this book and find out the best way in which you need to begin to rebuild you bridges. Of course there are some points to consider here, one of them being that you need to find out if it is worth getting your ex back
Let’s assume you are the person being cheated on. Firstly you have got to decide whether the relationship is worth saving. Is your partner committed to the other person or was it a one night stand!!!
If you are determined that you can get your ex back and need some help try my free tips from reading the magic of making up.
Are you yearning for the good old days and hoping to rekindle a lost romance? Are you interested in giving a tumultuous relationship another chance?
Follow these steps detailed below and you can learn how to get him back. These tips are from my experience with the magic of making up and should be taken with a pinch o salt
Keep in mind, first and foremost, that patience is a virtue.
Do not rush anything, but rather start things off with a simple small whenever you pass your ex, or waving and saying hello every so often.
You should maintain eye contact so that he knows you are communicating with him and not with somebody else, but do not let it go much further than this.
Try slowly implementing conversation in again, making an attempt to talk to him when you can.
Remember that you should keep your conversation brief, and rather basic in nature. Do not reveal too much, because mystery is actually quite a bit appealing for many men.
Also, if you run into him at a party or a social gathering, if your friends come into the room, you may consider stopping the conversation to return to them.
This will let him know that while the communication between the two of you is nice, he is not your highest priority right now. Don’t be afraid to flirt a little bit here and there as well.
Keep things fresh. Make sure that you look good, and smell good, and that you keep things changed up on a fairly regular basis in order to keep him interested in you.
You should put some thought into your appearance because maintaining your good looks will show confidence and respect for yourself and your body which is something that most men find quite sexy and attractive.
Don’t be afraid to throw a few honest compliments out there every so often. You are going to want to make sure that your ex feels good any time he is around you if you really want to get your ex back.
Talk about the good times that you and he spent together, bringing up good memories from the past. Help him remember some of the best highlights from the days of your relationship and enjoy the reminiscing while simultaneously working to get him back.
Try to become your ex’s friend first and foremost, because if he wants you back, he will eventually let you know.
Be his friend, open up to him and if his feelings for you are rekindled, he will let you know. Take things slowly and act only when you feel the time is right. Instead, just play it cool and let him come to you.
If things are meant to be, they will be, and you will learn how to get him back through the process. These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back.
These are the steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren’t my original ideas. I turned to T ‘Dub’ There are many books about it and lots of advice given from friends and counsellors.
There are marriage therapists to go to for counselling but most everyone will end up saying the same things and will not give you sound advice to take action on. The magic of making up is written by a guy who has real life experience in this area.
I found that the magic of making up enabled me to analyse myself in a way no one else could in a fraction of the price.
Just how do you go about getting someone back that you feel so strongly about but who apparently no longer feels the same way?
A man that used to say that they loved you, the letters and cards and flowers now mean nothing to you as you try to figure out what went wrong so that you can get him back.
One thing I would like to mention here is that he may have broken up with you for a number of reasons but that does not mean that he no longer cares about you.
The Magic of making up goes into great detail on this very subject. A man’s brain works a whole lot differently than a women’s.
In how it reacts and interprets situations and also what it requires emotionally. What you need to do now is to find out just to get your ex boyfriend back so that you can feel as good as you did when you were with him.
I’m assuming because he was with you in the first place that there was a reasonably strong connection between you to???
Then there is a pretty good chance that that connection is still there, you just need to find out how to rekindle the emotions that attracted him to you in the first place… Well this may be tough but go back a few years/months to when it was when you realised that yes!!!
He defiantly is attracted to me. What was it that you were doing then? Were you more confident? Attractive? Were you in a better financial position.
With the magic of making up it is very easy to find out just what you are doing wrong. What were the things that you did at that time in your life that you are not doing now? It may actually be that you have outgrown him and you need to move on.
You have actually become a stronger person yourself and are doing things that you enjoy not just hang around with him all the time… This can actually be quite intimidating for a guy. (don’t ask me why).
So if you can establish what it was that made him so attracted to you then you are on the road to the tough task of how to get ex boyfriend back with the magic of making up.
