Emotional Slaves - Why You Suck At Relationships

The problem with humans and relationships is that all of our actions are based on and emotional need. We are either running towards pleasure of running away from pain. This means we are pretty much slaves to the relationship that we are in. Yes we all have choices but our emotions are very very powerful.

We tend to agree with our parents or crazy friends before we believe in ourselves. Why is this? We will even call up complete strangers and ask for their advice “radio host” instead of actually listening to ourselves. Most of us already know the answers we are just too much of a coward to confront them.

Kind of pathetic huh?

Even if we do know all the answers we STILL break them. Maybe it’s just human nature to want to screw everything up but we all know that we are happier with a companion. We all have that human need to be loved or in the least somewhat admired or appreciated.

The national average divorce rate always hovers around 50% which seems so high! And I don’t think even with all the advice that it will ever change.

People on their fourth marriage are still looking for advice, wanting to repair there lives and marriages so that they will feel secure again. Such a crazy world we live in. The benefit of all this is that you have the chance to learn from everybody elses mistakes and save years of turmoil and pain.

So it’s time to start acting smart again and get your life back on track. If you happen to be out of love and think there is a guy or gal out there for you get up off your ass and do something about it.

You should learn to no longer be a slave to your environment and emotions. That is the true way to a free life.

But hey we all need help every now and then don’t we?

I certainly did, even though all the signs were right in front of my face I still screwed everything up…

Until I found this guy…